The cult of the body - our thoughts
It is clear that each of us (maybe not all but most) would like to be liked, to attract masculine or feminine look. Do not kid yourself, this is so and we will not argue with that, but not in this issue, we like to be desirable (human nature ;-). The problem arises when what pushes us toward this may cause side effects in this personal fight for every centimeter.
When you're still in the safe zone, and when in this eluded? You thought / were looking for this?
From an early age in many families the girls feel pressure to look or weight, which undoubtedly causes paralysis and pushes towards destruction. Each of us knows for certain cases of anorexia or bulimia in the immediate vicinity, and seeing everywhere around us lean body models or well-built ladies fitness clubs (do not confuse with sports sylwetkowymi) - the pressure increases. Additional is thinking: "but I'll find a guy who will want the cane overweight?" Then the young lady stops eating regularly, dried up the stomach, enters into nicotine addiction, everything just to get rid of those extra kilograms, which is reflected sadly on health, physical and mental. I suppose and the family quietly sleep through it can not. Personally, being in college I had a similar problem. I weighed then 43 kg and only the clothes on me perfect were for children, but in my head there was a problem, was effectively masked. only good people, my friends helped me get back to normal. Want to come back toappearance of such? Absolutely !!! I have now completely different problem that most women would envy me - fast fat burning and despite adequate nutrition is hard for me to gain weight, for at all times with the increased intensity of the workouts I have to control your weight. When the drops even with 0.5 kg I stop training until my weight comes back to the initial state. And so bad and not so good. Important to find a solution in harmony with our mood and psyche.
If you do it with pleasure, and sport is your passion and you approach this with the head, then everything makes sense, and the results are amazing. You feel the need to exercise for many reasons, but not necessarily for the acceptance environment, right? For us training often helps to remove tension, which has a soothing effect on the state of mind. The rule is - the less you have the urge to effect, the faster he will come alone, but it is based on acceptance of your body, because if it does not happen yo-yo effect. Work on another humbling, it allows you to explore your options, so check while racing with obstacles and find a side effect can be nicely sculpted silhouette. May or may not. Often in women it is that, unfortunately, hormones govern us, and disturbances in the economy badly they can affect our body and well-being, which, unfortunately, often do not have any influence. If you, dear readers, this woman has problems, say, thyroid, and for that loved one constantly pressuring and criticizing her appearance, what happens? Do you realize? This little woman closes in on itself, loses contact with the environment, she falls into a state of collapse. Everything tends toward depression, and, in extreme cases, to take her own life. In the name of what? Do these 5 cm less in waist will show that she is a better person, it will become by it prettier and sexier, and her family will be had for more affection? If so, it's time to change the environment. Is this guy feed his body to exhaustion moments that just do not fall out of circulation, the muscles will give his women a sense of security in everyday matters, and his children fully healthy and vigorous father?